The Little Things That Make a Home

In a time when days rush by between emails, obligations, delays, and phones that never stop ringing – it's easy to forget the most important thing in our lives (or, as Bernhard would say, the being of our lives): family. True, Bernhard used “the being of my life” to describe his beloved, but home is anywhere love and warmth reside – which is why we borrow this phrase from the Austrian writer and playwright.

Every year on May 15, we mark the International Day of Families – a day that reminds us that the relationships we nurture at home are the most important of all. This observance wasn’t established by chance: it was proclaimed by the United Nations in 1993, with the intention of raising awareness of the family’s role as a fundamental unit of society, and to encourage policies that support family life.

Since then, May 15 has served globally as an opportunity to reflect on the challenges modern families face – and how communities and governments can better support them. Yet for each of us, this day carries a deeper meaning: it’s a gentle call to pause, look around, and ask ourselves – how are we? Do we spend enough time together? Do we really listen, connect, and hold space for one another?

 

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Family isn’t perfect – and that’s what makes it precious

A family doesn’t have to be large. It doesn’t need a fancy yard, Viber groups, shared vacations or an Instagram page showcasing curated harmony. A family exists where there is a sense of belonging, understanding, and emotional safety. For some, that’s a mother and brother. For others, a partner. For some, it’s their children – or a best friend who understands everything without words.

In a world driven by data, rankings, and statistics, this is a day that invites us to set the numbers aside. Instead, it asks us to reflect on what it truly means to have someone who waits, listens, and offers unwavering support. Someone with whom we share silence, burdens, and joy.

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Marking Family Day doesn’t require extravagance. Sometimes, all it takes is a genuine “how are you?”, an honest conversation, turning off the TV, and simply being present in shared stillness. A walk without a rush, quiet time without distraction, or just being near one another – these can often mean more than a festive meal.

A family is not defined by the number of members or the perfection of their dynamics – but by the everyday care, support, and closeness we continuously invest in one another.

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